Book Review: “Looking Up: A Birder’s Guide to Hope Through Grief” by Courtney Ellis

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A reliable reviewer needs to offer a concise summary of what the book is about. I was trying to explain to a friend what Courtney Ellis’s fine new book is about. “It’s about birds, but it’s not really a bird book,” I explained. “It’s about grief, but not just about grief.” “It’s about hope but more than hope.” “Oh, and each chapter describes a different species of bird.” My friend said, “A Christian bird book about hope through grief. Sounds like a pretty narrow niche!” But it’s really not a narrow niche; the beauty of this book is that the whole is much bigger than the sum of its parts.

Because this book is also about parenting three littles during a pandemic. It’s about the complicated dynamics of an extended family gathering at a death. It’s about growing up in the upper Midwest and fishing with your taciturn grandfather. It’s about paying attention, not just to the birds, but also to your life, to the natural world around you, and the human world about you. It’s about faith, hope and love.

“Looking Up” is a great title for this book, because it has several meanings as metaphor. It can mean hope, as in “things are looking up.” When I was an active pastor, I used to take a little pamphlet called “Looking Up While Lying Down” to congregants in the hospital. It encouraged them to look beyond their present circumstances to a hopeful future in faith.

“Looking Up” can also mean paying attention. Yogi Berra once famously said: “You can observe a lot by looking!” There’s a lot of truth in that. I love to cook, and when asked what makes a good cook I always say “paying attention.”

Courtney Ellis loves birds. After she got the bird bug, she turned her attention to all manner of other things. There is also some wonderful humor about herself. She tells a touching story about a time when she was a little girl. She was in a boat with her grandfather and she got her finger caught in an oar lock. Her grandfather got some oil and rescued the finger. This is the same grandfather whose dying and death are the backdrop of her story and her coming to terms with her grief.

Throughout her story she displays a pastor’s heart, wise understanding and deep empathy for the human condition. Here is an excerpt about grieving: “Every person is grieving. Every person in our pews. Every person on our highways. In our supermarkets, at our offices and schools. Each person on your street, in your home.”

Read this book. It’s full of insights, good theology, and she writes beautifully.  We live in troubled times. Immersed in the news of wars and rumors of wars, of global warming and gun violence, our anxiety threatens to overtake us. In this lovely book, Courtney Ellis wisely counsels us to “look up. Look at the birds!”

(“Looking Up” is published by InterVarsity Press, 2024.: https://www.ivpress.com/looking-up?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAAR3Xdd8l4Oq1mIrBwXooSdi4YuhUiSbKN6JXIM_7c_jT2ZttXZmD3feceyk_aem_AahDuVg9Z2LAD4f0Xusu1-Z6Hk8l-6c7lY85mFTWXBa2qO4LWE1M10ax4cGRl8eAbwMgQgRmrGKYP08FjTAJI41Y

“You Will Be My Witnesses!” A Sermon on Acts 1:1-14

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Our reading today is from the first chapter of the “Acts of the Apostles.”  Acts is the second book of Luke’s two-part work. Luke’s Gospel tells the story of Jesus’s earthly ministry, and Acts tells the story of the ministry of the church after Jesus ascends to the Father. Acts begins as Luke’s Gospel ends, with the commissioning of the disciples by Jesus and Jesus’ ascension. Both books are in the form of a letter and the addressee is a man named Theophilus, which can mean “lover of God” or “beloved of God” which means this letter can be read as addressed to us. Continue reading

“The Healing Touch” A Sermon on Mark 1: 40-45

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“A leper came to him begging him, and kneeling he said to him, “If you choose, you can make me clean.”  Moved with pity, Jesus stretched out his hand and touched him, and said to him, “I do choose. Be made clean!”  Immediately the leprosy left him, and he was made clean. After sternly warning him he sent him away at once, saying to him, “See that you say nothing to anyone; but go, show yourself to the priest, and offer for your cleansing what Moses commanded, as a testimony to them.”  But he went out and began to proclaim it freely, and to spread the word, so that Jesus could no longer go into a town openly, but stayed out in the country; and people came to him from every quarter.”  —Mark 1: 40-45 Continue reading

The Best Store-Bought Eggnog Near You!

eggnogYes, I know your mom’s homemade eggnog is the best ever, but sometimes you just want to open a bottle or carton of the stuff from the local store.

Here in the Berkshires the best eggnog from a store is High Lawn Farm in Lee, MA, hands down! But you can’t get it everywhere in the land, so I took a highly unscientific poll from all my social media friends and followers asking what they like where they live. Here’s what I found. Continue reading

My Top Ten Posts of 2023

Marsh 1Once again, as the old year passes and the new year beckons, it is my custom to look back at my most viewed posts of the year. I started this blog in 2009 and 2022 was our best year for both views and visits. This year wasn’t quite as good, but we still had 63,922 views and 50,310 visitors. I thank everybody that came by.

I began this blog as mostly theology and a place to post my writings and sermons. But early on I started posting pictures and recipes of my food. All of those can also be found at my cooking blog “Rick’s Recipes.” Continue reading

Rick’s German Pancake (Dutch Baby)

DutchMy daughter-in-law introduced me to this wonderful recipe. This is simplicity itself. Just eggs, milk, flour and butter whisked together and baked, and you have a lovely breakfast or brunch dish that has a texture somewhere between a pancake and a fluffy omelet. Serves four to six. Continue reading

Karl Barth and Thomas Merton died on this day in 1968

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Thomas Merton and Karl Barth died on this day in 1968, Barth in Basel at the age of 82, and Merton in Bangok, Thailand at the age of 53. They couldn’t have been more different, but they both were powerful influences on me. Back on this day in 2009 I wrote a post called “An Appreciation: Thomas Merton and Karl Barth.” To read it go here. Continue reading

“Finish, then, Thy new creation!” A Devotion on Romans 8: 22-23


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By Richard L. Floyd

“We know that the whole creation has been groaning in labor pains until now; and not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the first fruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly while we wait for adoption, the redemption of our bodies.” – Romans 8: 22-23

The Advent hope recognizes that there is something unfinished about God’s creation. In today’s passage from Romans Paul employs the metaphor of childbirth, the “whole creation groaning in labor pains,” to describe the ongoing process of creation. Continue reading